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The Way To Make A Successful Date.

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Speaking Successfully

I have successfully made an appointment with the other person, but I don't know what to say on the date. And I also want to know if it is appropriate to say "likes" with the other person on the first date.


Whether the date is successful or not is closely related to your own charm.


First of all, the most important thing is to listen to the other person and watch each other's eyes as much as possible.

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He listens attentively and shows his interest in the other's words.

Especially when the other person says something he is very proud of, you have to show that you are also very interested and make him aware of it.


When speaking, you should be open and clear.

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Answer it clearly.


It is also important to prepare the topic in advance.

If you know what the other person is interested in, be prepared to talk about the topic.


Secondly, moderate praise is also the secret of success.

But too much flattery is not feasible.

As for the appearance and figure of the other person, it is best not to praise on the first date.

If you are a male, compliment each other on the appearance and temperament of hairstyles and costumes. If you are a woman, compliment each other's knowledge, skills, or the unusual taste of a famous brand lighter, tie and so on.


The topic that should be avoided in appointments is to show dissatisfaction or dissatisfaction with anything and to speak ill of others.

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Others.

These topics will not only destroy the joyful atmosphere of the date, but also make the other person suspicious of your product.


Secondly, to say "yes" is appropriate for first date, my answer is "better not".

Because it is not the first time to know each other's intentions. If we mention this question hastily, we will be shocked and overwhelmed. There may not be another second appointments.

If the other person wants to keep an appointment, he should not hate himself.

Don't forget that "love" is not unilateral wishful thinking. It must be cultivated naturally by appointments and appointments.

Even if you do not say "like", as long as you can feel the friendly attitude of the other person, this is the expression of "like".

As long as you don't particularly like to say "like", it is very likely that the other party willingly accept the second date.

Besides, to say "I love you" is probably only counter productive.


Now let me talk about how a young man thinks about what he should say.

One day, he had a date with his favorite woman and went to see a movie together.

The day before the date, he arrived at the appointed station with the other party and then walked from the station to the cinema.

As he walked, he counted the steps and calculated the time spent on the road.

Then, think about what she has to say with her during this period of time, and repeated practice.


If you want to make love successful, you must have this kind of enthusiasm.

Normally, most people do not plan in particular. In a limited time of a few minutes, there is something special to say. However, if you try one time and practice speaking, there should be unexpected results.


When we take an entrance examination or a job examination, everyone will prepare for it, but I think it is a little strange for me to make such a big effort to prepare a speech.

Of course, it is not necessary to make it too difficult. However, especially for the first date, we must be as careful as possible and try our best to get it ready.


Don't be too smart, just try to convey your sincerity to your partner.

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